14: They’re Not A Shoulder To Lean On
Emotional closeness plays the biggest part in whether or not a relationship lasts. Ideally, our SO is the one we go to in a crisis, the one who’s always in our corner and has our back.
We trust them implicitly. If we’re looking elsewhere for that comfort, it could mean that we don’t trust our partner enough to share that side of ourselves.
13: They Keep Their Guard Up
Not all of us are so willing to bare our soul and admit our faults. For some people it can take a lot of time and effort to get to that point.
However, if we find that we’re always hesitant to reveal anything about ourselves and remain uneasy around our partner, it could be because we don’t want them to get close.
12: They Play The Blame Game
Things don’t always go according to plan; such is life. However, when we’re always placing the blame of a crappy day at work on our partner, it’s usually a clear sign that the relationship doesn’t have what it takes to make it.
Now, we’ve brought home our bad attitude, rather than letting it go. Pretty soon, it’ll be the relationship that’s leaving us instead.