11: Their Values Just Don’t Line Up
There are a few major things that most couples agree they should see eye-to-eye on, in order to avoid conflict later on: family, money, and religion.
These make up a good chunk of our value system, and if those things don’t line up, it can spell a dead-end down the line.
10: They Lie About The Little Things
Constantly lying about the little things can be what ends a relationship prematurely. Dishonesty about the little things in a relationship can sow distrust in it.
Lying by omission or withholding information can make a person feel unsafe and insecure, which is exactly what we don’t want to feel in a relationship. It’s a sign of disrespect and could mean a quicker end.
9: They Turn Molehills Into Mountains
Arguments in a relationship are normal as long as they are resolved peacefully and to the benefit of both parties.
If we’re constantly turning small arguments into massive blowouts, we have a problem. If every conflict ends up in a screaming match, we are far more likely to split up than to resolve anything.